Mistakes are inevitable in football. Whether it’s a misplaced pass, a missed tackle or a squandered scoring opportunity, how players respond to these moments can define their performance. For players with ADHD and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD), these errors can trigger an emotional cascade that impairs focus and confidence for the remainder of the match.
As coaches, introducing a structured physical reset routine can provide players with a concrete tool to regain composure and return to optimal performance quickly.
The following routine is designed to be completed in approximately 30 seconds – short enough to use during actual gameplay without disrupting flow, yet long enough to create a meaningful psychological and physiological shift.
Instruct players to perform a specific physical gesture that serves as their “reset button”. For example:
This physical anchor signals to the brain that a reset is occurring and creates a clear boundary between the mistake and what comes next.
Guide players to:
This breathing pattern activates the parasympathetic nervous system, reducing stress hormones and helps to bring the player back to a centred state.
Have players:
This movement pattern helps release muscular tension that builds up during moments of stress and resets body posture to a stance that helps them prepare to continue.
Teach players to:
This redirects attention from the past mistake to the present moment and next action.
Finish with:
This completes the reset by establishing connection and team awareness.
Consider Jamie, a talented midfielder with ADHD who would spiral after making mistakes. After implementing a personalised reset routine, his coach noticed:
Jamie’s routine became: adjust headband (anchor), two deep breaths, quick arm shake, tap badge and point forward (focus shift), and return to ready position with eyes up.
The benefits of a reset routine extend beyond football. Players report using modified versions of their reset routines in:
By teaching this valuable emotional regulation tool, coaches contribute not just to developing better footballers, but to nurturing resilient young people equipped for life’s challenges.
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